by Alisa

Gender: Female
Age: 32
Race/ethnicity: Hispanic
Location: Puerto Rico
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: CBP Tech
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Will try anything once
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

War Casualty

How long ago did this hookup happen? In 2003

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? White, thin, 5’10” Puerto Rican male with green eyes and younger than me. He was my work buddy in the Army back in Iraq.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me. And that night while having some drinks with other soldiers, I started to flirt with him. We went back to my tent, drunk.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was crazy sex, I masturbated him actually and don’t remember much but I do remember I gave him a scratch on his penis. That left a mark.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Nope, wasted people do stupid things.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Mad and drunk. Not a very good excuse

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yep

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was crazy fun. We talked about it and then started to have sex everyday.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Normal, they know I’m a hot (horny)  person.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, it was a good experience, what happen after that.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? We started a fuck buddy relation and it was great while in Iraq.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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