What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Washington DC
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Medical Research
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Small but very shapely with a lot of ass and big beautiful boobs. Met her about 5 years ago at a friends party where we clicked very well but after the party, she left with another friend who she claimed was only a friend nothing sexual.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We lived in different cities and had to travel to her town for work so I called her after my meeting and she suggested to call the next day since she was working that night.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So I called the next day after my work meetings and she started talking about how tired and hungry she was and did not want to do anything that night. I had gone to see another friend and was just driving towards my hotel trying to decide what to do when I realized she was calling. I had my phone on silent mode since my morning meetings but heard this call because it interrupted my phone navigation system. On picking up she mentioned she was working through a lazy attitude and would get out of bed and wait for me. I told her to think of a restaurant since she said she was hungry. I asked for her address and she said she has texted me earlier so I checked my texting app and saw her earlier text. “Getting out of bed and freshening up see you son. Address xxx. When I got there I called and she buzzed me into her building and told me her front door was open. By the time I got to her door, she was by the door with a large towel around a shapely body. I was eyeing her body whilst looking into her beautiful face. She excused herself and went into the bedroom turned the TV on for me. She soon came out in a form-fitting dress which very much complemented her shapely curves. She made some excuse about having a hard time trying to diet to which I said I love her just as she was. We went out to a Mediterranean place about 5 blocks from her house and decided to walk because parking was a problem. I made sure t walk just away from her enough to enjoy her shapely ass move with her stride.
When we got to the restaurant it was jam-packed and decided to sit at the bar and order drinks and order our food as a takeout. After we got the food, she decided to get wine from the local wine shop so we picked up a Chardonnay and went back to her place. After dinner, I started to fondle her thighs and we basically had intense kissing and breast play. I really enjoyed sucking on her big nipples. We eventually ended up in the bedroom where I undressed her and attempted to give her oral sex but she said no. She mentioned she had sex with her boyfriend recently and did not want me down there. Once I had my condom on she pushed me down in the bed and rode me cowgirl to a shaking orgasm. I had still not climaxed by then so I turned her over and fucked her missionary and had a very relaxing orgasm. Afterward, we cuddled together and fucked 2 more times and she orgasmed both times. Unfortunately by the third time my orgasm got delayed and I was still hard after she came. I still withdrew and lay naked cuddling next to her talking about stuff.
She reached out for my dick and realized it was still hard and appeared interested in helping me out. I suggested oral sex but she refused since she only did that for her boyfriend. I relented but later in started to fondle her body and moved down to her thighs and into her pussy. This time she did not stop me and I enjoyed sucking her pussy juice and tickling her clit. At this point, I could not control myself and moved to mount her. I asked if it was ok without a condom and she did not say anything so I entered her warm wet pussy and fucked her missionary. I soon felt myself coming and withdrew and came on her thighs and bed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I invited her to my hotel but she declined and I left alone since I had more meetings the next day.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex with a good friend. We still text and talk occasionally.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My partner was concerned about having gone bareback with me.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It allows me to have a more fulfilling relationship with my regular partner
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great work
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