What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Was Not Expecting That, but Hell Yeah!
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 7 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is thick and curvy, smooth lines, full round hips. Her hair is tousled in a ponytail. She goes for the natural look but wears eyeshadow, light foundation and lip gloss. She has a sense of humor just like mines. She is bolder than me and I am envious of that. Snarky as hell. Her lips are full and eyes sated. She carries a don’t fuck with me face most places and likes it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I arrived in a super popular tourist city and I bought a cruise at the hostel I was staying at. There was one other person from the hostel who was going on the cruise. We made quick friends and had like sensibilities. We were both super intrigued by the temples and ancient places we visited. We shared cool discoveries and made comments about our journey. We explored together and had our time alone as well. At the end of the cruise, we just happened to be going to the same city so we booked a room together in a hostel.
She hated shopping but by the lack of it, she decided to stop into this well lit beautifully ornate lamp and trinkets shop. We carried on chatting for a solid 40 minutes when he invited us to his brother’s shop to enjoy some harder drinks. We both walked over to the other shop chill I look to her with a nod to see if she is actually cool about going – she is. A couple of drinks in and the shop keep get cozy with my friend. The touchy keeper asked me directly what I thought of his actions. Amused and aroused I told him, she was a grown ass woman. She could do whatever she wanted.
I had to suddenly pee and the hot brother escorted me and told me he was into me. I took longer than I needed to and debated on what to do next. I washed and headed out, and he was there waiting. We walked a few steps together to the street and my friend yanked me by the hand and we were suddenly breezing down the street back to the hostel. I was like “No” until I felt a familiar and satisfying grab to my side. I turned to look her in the eyes. Her gaze was on fire with sex and I breathed her in slowly, my left arm sliding up her back taking in her warmth. We made the fuck out, and she started talking dirty. I loved hearing all the nasty things someone wanted to do to me before they did it. I was hot and wet as hell. We pulled each other down the streets racing to the room but kept our composure where it was crowded. It’s a conservative culture.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
We opened the door and it was on! I hate drunk sex because you can’t remember everything and the sex seems so aggressive. Every touch, every moan, every lick, every kiss all a blur. There was no grace at all. The lights were on at some point which meant the neighbors could see in we were going at it on the floor. I was on top, her frame holds mine without effort. She was beautiful. I heard her moans, very loud and satisfying. I mauled her pussy with my tongue and suck her full round titties. I bit her a little and ground her pussy with mine, and tasted her tongue. Not all in that order. It was a blur but she may cum. I may cum too. I had no clue. I slept naked. We woke up.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? I don’t know
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We chatted as friends and asked about the other’s enjoyment. We enjoyed the rest of the day together as usual. Had no hopes of future sex or commitment. I still think she is still cool as hell.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t talk to anyone about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Unexpected and mutual
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I cheated
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yeah, feel more open expressing sexuality with women
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s cool
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