by Clover

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Social work
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Wasn’t bored anymore

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on Tinder. Chatted a bit about mutual interests. He was in his early twenties, black, and extremely fit as he played for the local professional football team. He came off a bit dumb but was very attractive.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In chatting we decided to meet up to blaze together. Since he wasn’t from here and was staying with roommates I picked him up and we drove to a park and smoked and talked. Eventually during a lull in the conversation he turned over and kissed me. Apologized and said pot made him horny but I said he didn’t have to be sorry and I kept kissing him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First we made out for a bit. I ended up straddling him and grinding his lap while he groped my tits. Right away I could tell he was VERY well endowed. I pulled his dick out of his pants and started stroking it, it was huge. About 12 inches and very thick; I had never seen anything even close to it. He asked if I would suck it so I slid down and started going down on him. Luckily I have no real gag reflex so the size wasn’t an issue. After a bit he pulled back up into his lap and started kissing me and fingering me while I continued to stroke his cock. He slid my pants down and I sat down on his dick. I’m very tight and small down there so at first it didn’t get in very far because it was so big. We slowly ground deeper and deeper until most of the whole thing fit. It didn’t hurt at all but felt amazing. I rode him hard for awhile while he held me tightly to his chest and he kept saying how good it felt. Eventually we turned around and he fucked me on top for a bit. Mind you we were doing this in my car in the park. At this point a park ranger was doing his rounds of he parking lot and we realized he was coming towards the car with a flash light. He got off me real quick and I jumped pack in the drivers seat and we drive to a different parking lot in the park. I crawled back over to him and he wanted to fuck me from behind. So I laid down on the seat and he started rubbing and fingering me and couldn’t believe how wet I was. Then he stuck his cock in and started out really slowly but started going hard and fast. At this point he started to keep asking me how I felt and to tell him how good it was, so I did. And it was very good. The whole time he was very gentle and rubbed my clit and tits a lot. He was very strong and had a ton of stamina so we fucked really hard for quite a long time. I came twice; once when I was riding him and once when he was taking me from behind. He loved it when I came on his cock. Eventually he asked me where I wanted him to cum and I said on my ass so that’s we did. Then he grabbed a beach towel I had in my back seat from the previous weekend and wiped me off. We got dressed and sat and talked for awhile and then since it was late by that point and we were tired we just lied down in the seats and held eachother in silence for awhile. Eventually I could feel he was hard again and he started stroking my face and kissing me again. We fucked again and it was very similar to the first time which was impressive because he had a ton of energy. After we were done I dropped him back off at his room and went home.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt good about it the next day and was open to do it again. A couple days later he texted me and wanted to meet again. It didn’t work out for a few weeks because we were both busy with work and couldn’t coordinate our schedules. Eventually one night I was horny and texted him a sexy picture; he came over right after work and we hooked up again and he stayed the night. We never met up again because we texted again a few times but could never find a time we were both free.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To cheer myself up, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His huge cock and he was very good at sex and never got needy or attached.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was better the second time when we actually did it in a bed instead of the car lol.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? A little bit. It helped me figure out I can have and enjoy good sex without being emotionally attached to a person.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s great if done respectfully. I absolutely don’t want a relationship right now but still need sex so casual sex works quite well. I will always wish we didn’t live in a society that slut shames. I would really like to see that change.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it.

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