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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+

Watched by her husband

How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was Asian, I think Filipino. Around 40yrs, short, fairly petite, round breats with big nipples

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I made contact with her on the adult friend finder website. After chatting, we agreed to meet in a parking lot at an outlet mall outside of town. She said we would be watched and filmed by her husband, who wouldn’t participate.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I got there, I parked and walked over to their van. She was wearing a long coat and introduced herself. I went into the back of the van and met her husband. He was black, very casual. The backseat area had the seats down and a couple of lights strung up, indicating they’ve done this before. After a couple minutes of small talk, her and I started kissing. I slid off her coat and felt her firm breasts and sucked on them. After a minute I forgot about the camera. I stripped down and she started sucking my cock. She was pretty enthusiastic about it. We switched places and I ate her out for several minutes, and she was soaking wet. I moved up and slid my bare cock into her. We fucked missionary for awhile, then she got on top and sat on my lap facing away from me and rode reverse cowgirl. I laid her back down, licked her pussy some more and resumed missionary as I was getting closer. It was hot making out with her while I thrusted. When I was ready to finish, I pulled up, moved to her mouth and unloaded in her mouth. Some got on her cheek and chin also. She licked the rest off my cock. Her husband was impressed with the load. I left a few mins afterward.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I regret there is a video of me floating around the universe, but it was hot sex and probably worth it. Incredibly, I found the video on pornhub a few years ago, and was able to get them to remove it. However, not before jerking off and watching it, which was crazy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told nobody

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Again, the existence of the video makes me nervous. But it’s hot knowing her husband watched me fuck his wife and cum in her mouth

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Hot and anonymous

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The video

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex, but am married so I no longer participate

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good reads

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