What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Employee
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? high (hetero)sexual drive with a curiosity about cock
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Watching My Girlfriend Getting Fucked by Another Guy
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? MY GIRLFRIEND:
38, white, 1,68cm, sporty figure, big boobs, round ass, blond long hair.
THE OTHER GUY:
26, white, tall and sporty.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Me and my then-girlfriend fantasized about having some other guy involved in our sexual play.
We were out together at a local techno-venue. We danced, consumed alcohol and drugs and had a great time. There were these Indian-looking guya asking my girlfriend if it would be okay for him to make out with my girlfriend. I said it would be fine.
My girlfriend left the venue a bit early so that she could shower beforehand On the way to her flat with him I found out he wasn’t aware that we would have sex with us.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We sat in the kitchen, had a little drug-fueled small-talk. After a while me and my girlfriend asked if he wants go to the bedroom. The guy said he’s not sure if he can do this. He never did anything like that and he was a little nervous and unsure about the situation.
My girlfriend started to undress and we were touching each other while naked in front of him. We asked him to take offthis clothes too and he did, but left his underwear on.
We got in bed and were touching each other. At one point the guy took his underwear off and revealed a really smooth, shaved thick cock. My girlfriend carefully touched his cock and played with his testicles.
After a while the guy couldn’t resist anymore, so he crawled over her and fucked her in a really hard and impressive way. It was like an wild animal. He was fast and furious. While that was happening I kissed my girlfriend and whispered things like “it looks so good how he’s fucking you. His big cock looks so good in your tiny hole.“
He came in her, rolled over, and we had a little nap. When we woke up he began touching her and she began touching his dick again. After a few minutes he crawled over her like before and fucked her the same wild way before he blew his second load inside her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? i felt good and bad at one. but the good part overweighted.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? some friends of mine. i think most of them thought this is crazy.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? seeing another guy fucking my girl.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? seeing her sleeping with her arms around him.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? i wouldn’t allow another guy fuckiing my girlfriend without putting on a condom anymore! that was silly!!!
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? i wished people would be more open minded about some things.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? i like this site. it’s sexy but not the usual porn-stuff.
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