What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? employed
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? high sexual drive, into women but with slight curiosity for men
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Watching My Girlfriend Getting Fucked

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The one was my back-then girlfriend. she has been 38, tiny slim person with kinda big boobs und a round ass. the other guy was about 28, tall, slim and smooth.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My girlfriend and I had the fantasy to let some other man hook up with us. I wanted to see when she got fucked by another man. and she was pretty into this idea. So one time we both were out at a small techno venue. we danced and also did some drugs (cocaine). As she was rather pretty and flirty one slightly older Indian-looking guy asked her if he could have a threesome with us. She told me about that and I agreed with her but said that I would prefer this younger we talked a few minutes earlier with. she was okay with it and I asked him if he wanna go to our flat with us (which was nearby the club).

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My girlfriend left the venue a bit before us so she can have a shower and be ready when I arrived with the guy. On the way to our flat, I found out that the guy obviously didn’t know that we wanna have a threesome with him and that he could fuck my girlfriend. He wasn’t really into it, but I convinced him to come with us and we’ll see what will happen.

In our flat, we sat in the kitchen, having a talk and after a while, I said that we can go to the bedroom if it is okay for him. he wasn’t really into that idea – but my girlfriend and I began to move out our clothes. so we both were naked in front of him, starting to touch each other and led us 3 to the bed.

He also moved out of his clothes. but still in his underwear he was beside us in our bed, starting to touch her. He kept saying we both are crazy and that he could no longer resist. So he pulled down his underwear and was naked with us. he had really nice cock, long and thick. Also, his ass was well trained. My girlfriend started to touch his genitals and suddenly he said “I can’t resist anymore”, crawled over her and started to fuck her in a furious way. It looked like he hadn’t fucked since ages – very fast and wild, while my girlfriend was moaning. It took only a few minutes. While that I was kissing my girlfriend and whispering in her ear how good it looks when he fucks her, how good his fat cock looks in her tiny pussy…

After this first fuck, we were lying nearby each other, had short naps, suddenly awoke and she caressed once again his cock. A few minutes later, he once again crawled over her and fucked her in the same way, hard and fast.

I felt sorry for myself that I didn’t manage to get an erection all the time whilst that. Maybe I had too much alcohol, maybe was too excited.

But suddenly after he finished her I got so aroused that I crawled over her, fucked her the same way he fucked her, and pumped my sperm into her. So she hat 3 loads at the end of this night/morning in her. He watched us fucking. We got up, we clothed, had a little small talk and he left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was a strange feeling. It was arousing but also felt a little jealous. but we both were sure we wanted to do something like that again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine, MDMA, ecstasy, molly

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine, MDMA, ecstasy, molly

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a few friends of mine. Some of the thought that this is cool, but the most didn’t really understand I think.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing a guy fucking my girlfriend. having the guy watching us.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Seeing her sleeping with her arm around him.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’d like more people to be more open about new things and giving things a try. maybe they miss something.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? really cool site. thank you!

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