by Its Elle
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2-3
We fucked hard
How long ago did this hookup happen? Today
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met again a few weeks later…
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He messaged me this morning to see if I was around afternoon. I took this as a sign that his roommate was away and in a previous story that we could only fuck when he has the house to himself. I was heading to the library to prepare for class and then I went to his place after that.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Basically, he already had a couple of drinks and was feeling drunk. He took my bag into the kitchen and then went into my room. He took my pants off revealing a green thong and realising I hadn’t had a drink, he proceeded to get one. He then took my clothes off and played with my butt until I finished my drink. Off came my bra and after fingering me he pulled my underwear off. We got into doggy and fucked hard and I came. Later on, he pounded real hard until he came.
I proceeded to get another drink and then he lay on the right-hand side in an attempt to slide is dick into me. He lay down on his bed and got on top of him and banged hard for a while. I couldn’t even hold it so I squirted on his dick again and then we resumed doggy until I squirted again and he came :). A wet bed meant he changed his bedside and he laid his pillow and blanket aside.
We chilled while listening to music and then his hand slid into my nipple and then down my pussy. I spread my legs open so he could play with my pussy and I was getting aroused again. I could see he was getting hard again and so we fucked again with my legs in the air whilst the thrust into me until he came on my stomach.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We then cleaned up and seeing that he was ready to sleep, I took this as a sign to head home. Plus the weather was better anyway. We fucked pretty hard this time and felt really good. Welcome to message me for the time being.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We fucked pretty hard for a while. A squirty mess :). Feeling his dick again. He’s pretty flirty when he’s drunk and I’m more relaxed when I have drinks.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing this time.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’m currently going with the flow with these sort of things. If it happens, it happens :). I used the Pure app but limited success.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Will miss him when he moves though but I tell myself that’s life and enjoy the time he has left here to hook-up.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good stuff
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