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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Capitol
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

We Had No Idea The Sex Would Be This Good

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him through a volunteer thing we do. I thought he was incredibly good looking. He’s 5’7 and 160lbs. He’s Turkish with black hair/eyes and lighter skin.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I asked him via email to go out with me for drinks. He turned me down because I was married. A few months later, we ran into each other and I could tell he was interested. He made it very clear he wanted me. We started talking via email and shared phone numbers. I suggested I come for a visit, and he quickly agreed and I went to his place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were really nervous and didn’t say much. We sat on the couch and I took his hand up to my mouth, put his thumb in my mouth, and started sucking it. He leaned over and kissed me and I quickly turned around and straddled him. I was kissing him and telling him how bad I wanted him inside of me. He pushed me off of him and stood up. I took his cock into my mouth and he stopped me. He moved me to the bed and laid on me, kissing me. He asked if he could go in me and I was so excited for his cock to be in me I could barely answer him. He pushed my legs back and entered me. He was quick, but it was good sex. We figured out pretty quickly that we were extremely compatible and comfortable, and over the last two years we have evolved into a pretty adventurous and hardcore sex relationship. The first time he bent me over the table and shoved my back down, I knew he was what I had been looking for. Neither one of us had any experience with rough, handcore sex with other people, so we learned as we went. He really enjoys grabbing my hair and shoving his cock down my throat, and I really enjoy riding his face until he can’t breathe. I will ride his cock so deep he moans which makes me want him deeper and I will put my hand around his throat and choke him while I tell him to make me come.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We’re still at it 2 years later. I think we’re going to fuck for life. Yes, it’s that good.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He turned out to be the best sex I’ve ever had, and it just keeps getting better.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Talking about sex normalizes it and makes it more acceptable.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!