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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA, Minneapolis
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Physicians Assistant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Wedding Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? In high school, he was a 6’4” skinny basketball player. Over the past 10 years, he developed shoulders and a chest that matched his height. I had only seen him once, a year after graduation but he really developed into a real man. We met at a wedding. I liked him in high school but he was dating a friend of mine.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met a friends wedding. We were dancing together and he was grinding behind me at one point, then, I suggested we go to my room. He was all good with that.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out in the elevator and he started running his hands all over my body. We walked into the room and I went into the bathroom and ran the water for the bathtub. We made out a little more and clothes started coming off. We needed to get clean first. We started taking a bath in the jacuzzi and reminisced about high school. His hands started wandering as we continued to make out. He cleaned my pussy and then slipped a finger in my ass. I said, “I guess if I ever need a suppository you’re the one to call.” He replied,  “I would do that for you if I was around. Have you tried anal?” I said, “Nope, the only person that has been there is my doctor.” He asked, “Your doctor?” I answered, “Yeah, some include a rectal exam with pelvic exams.” Then, I grabbed his hard cock with my soapy hand to make sure he was clean. We got out of the tub and he sat me down on the vanity and went down on me. Afterward, he asked me, “Do you want to try anal?” I answered honestly, “Not really, I have a perfectly good pussy that I am sure you will be happy with.” Then, I got down on my knees and gave him head. We went to the bed and did 69. With him laying on his back I got on him. He asked, “Do I need a condom?” I said, “No, I have an IUD and like it raw.” I love this position and came quick. Him, not so much. He got behind me and started fucking me like he was a jockey on the homestretch of the Kentucky Derby. He asked me, “Where do you want it?” I said, “Are you fucking kidding me? Inside, I said I have an IUD.” After we went to bed and I heard him get up and go to the bathroom at 3 AM. He got back in and cuddled up close to me. He ran his hands on my back while kissing my neck. His hand touched my clit and then he slid a finger into my pussy. What a nice way to wake up. Then I felt a different sensation. I asked, “Is your finger in my ass?” and he said,  “Yeah, is this OK?” and I replied, “I guess.” He flipped me over and went down on me with a finger in my ass. I came because of his exceptional oral skills, I liked him, and the exoticness of the situation. I saw his full hard on and asked what I could do for him. He asked, “Can we try anal?” I had seen this coming, so I asked him if he had lube? He showed me the vaseline I used for makeup removal from the bathroom, which answered my question about how he got his finger in my ass so easily. I got on the edge of the bed, lifted my legs and grabbed my knees. He slid in one finger, two, then three and we were off to the main event. I told him to go slow. He slowly put his penis in my ass. It was not that comfortable. so I asked him to take it out . He told me to let him hold it there and it will start to feel better, so we waited. Then he began to fuck my ass. Not fast like the first time but that oh so sweet deliberate motion. I reached down and started touching my clit. I could kind of see the pleasure in anal. Where am I at? The 10th floor or the Marriott. Where is my cock at? My ass. He came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went to brunch the next day with the wedding group and exchanged numbers. I would love to go out with him again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I did not tell anyone that I hooked up with him.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to hook up with a man that dreamed about hooking up with 10 years ago.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I suppose I just sentenced myself to anal pap smears for the foreseeable future.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? In grad school, we were sitting around drinking and talking about the things we’d never do. One friend said anal. Another chimed in, and said that anal is actually not too bad if you have plenty of lube and he goes slow. I remember being kind of shocked by the statement but it turns out my classmate was right.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I was raised that sex was something sacred and to be given away to one person. Then I finally had sex and I did not feel any different. I walked the same way, talked the same way, and was the same person. People need to realize that with appropriate communication sex can be amazing!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it.

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