by HarryM

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Weirdo chubby nerd

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We were chatting over OkCupid for 2 weeks before we met up. We live about 80km apart so I visited her in her town while I was getting back from a business trip. We met up in a neutral coffee shop, had some cake and tea, she showed me around, very platonic conversation over 2-3 hours with no idication of something happening. She was on the chubby side, but not obese, still looking healty with big tits and curves, a bit much for my taste but I needed some relief so whatever.
When we were about to end our “walk” she brought me to my car and just before that we started talking about sexual stuff, casual partners, having fun, etc. I offered her to give her a ride back to her place (5min walk actually), and then asked if I should come in for a drink. She agreed and we had a cup of tea. She was a fantasy nerd with lots of stuff I have no clue of. I finally asked her to show me her bedroom, which she did. She had BDSM-Stuff hanging around, some chains and whips, nude men all around, etc

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I told her I was not intimidated by her bedroom set up and proceeded to kiss her. She was actually not my type but I wanted to hook up badly so that’s why it happened.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We briefly made out, dressed off and she gave me one of the best blow-jobs i’ve ever had. She was rough and used a lot of friction and I really liked it. I didn’t go down on her because by that time I wanted to get it done, so I put on a condom and started fucking her. Her bed made a lot of noise so we proceeded on the floor. I mentioned the BDSM stuff… she bit me in chest, slapped me on my back, screamed like hell to punish her, whatever, and had this sick sound of cheering and laughing while we were at it. It was weird, but interesting. I always wondered if I was into that stuff but found out I wasn’t.
She came quite fast and I came shortly after her. Guess the whole vaginal sex didn’t last more than 10 min. I came, got my stuff together and left

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left, never talked to her since.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. I felt pretty dirty afterwards.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? It was not necessary. She was not my type. I wanted to fuck and felt quite disgusted about myself afterwards.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The blow job. Plus I think she has the same opinion about the whole thing. She never contacted me again. Guess she was fine with how it went.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing in particular, but it was just not necesarry

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? nope

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Dude wants to get laid, gets laid, end of story.

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