by YFL

Gender: male
Age: 48
Race/ethnicity: white
Current location: nyc
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: mgmt/art
Relationship status: single for now
Religious affiliation: spiritual
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? sex positive/open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

What Happened Was Good

How long ago did this hookup happen? yesterday

How would you best classify this hookup? sex with girlfriend material

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? she looked good, hot little asian honey, knew her well for a short time, hadnt hooked up before, met online, i felt comfortable before the hookup

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? we had a few dates and liked each other so knew tonight might be the night, i thought it was very likely so i planned ahead, we both instigated

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? what happened last night?
was good
she came over at about 6… i cleaned the apartment thoroughly… i was thinking we would finally be having sex for the first time. i actually even verbally told myself we would … i had gone to the store and gotten oysters as promised… i told her i would shuck them for her… she had never shucked an oyster and i dont think she had she seen them shucked… She brought a bottle of white and a bottle of red… we had a nice conversation and started drinking the white as i shucked… i choose the oysters carefully so they would be easy.. they were.. i impressed myself even?!? 🙂 i squeezed lemon on the oysters and made a spicy lemon siracha scallion cocktail sauce… we ate the oysters after i cleaned them … they were really good! i was supposed to make dinner but we were full… so we kept talking in the kitchen and got closer… we kissed and she rested her leg on my thigh… conversation was a nice back and forth banter… i massaged the inside of her leg… we moved to the couch and lay next to each other talking kissing touching entwined in each others arms… we read each others horoscopes.. she said “you like to kiss” i agreed… we talked about work and each others traits… i said lets move to the bedroom… she lay on my bed… i had changed the sheets and pillow cases  earlier anticipating our arrival… she said she hadnt had sex in a while… i was glad she choose me to end her drought… i was going to be good to her and for her… i wanted to enjoy her body thoroughly.. my attitude about sex is this may be the first but it also may be the last so i’m going to make the most of it  … we had been on two dinner dates, a movie date, a late night park bench conversation and met for coffee…we were txting daily back and forth through the day and into the evening… we were taking our time and it was nice…on the bed i undid her bra… and fondled her boobies…sucked on her hard nipples … kissed and carefully licked her boobies… she took the rest of her clothes off so did i… we were naked laying next to each other… kissing deeply… after more kissing and fondling i mounted her and pushed myself inside… i couldnt wait but i pushed my self in slowly felt good … i like to work my cock in slowly every centimeter feels so good… no condom… i felt her insides with my cock… she was wet .. i opened her slowly… then deeply… thrusting slowly then faster deep then shallow… this went on for a while… she turned over gave me her ass i penetrated her from behind … she was moaning and shoving her ass onto my hard wood… i held her waist.. i reached around and fondled her boobies and fingered her pussy while fucking her from behind… i pulled myself into her… i rammed her fast and slow… i watched myself disappear inside her… i came inside her hard she kept pushing against me… i emptied myself inside her… i pulled out slowly… lay next to her… we talked some more i massaged her back and stroked her lightly all over… we entwined each other again… holding each other… kissing and touching and talking some more… we thought it was around 10 pm but it was about 1230 am time was flying and moving slow at the same time.., i got up and brought some washed off  blueberries and strawberries for a midnight snack…we dropped off to sleep… we woke again at 330am.., i was feeling a little sexual.,, but the feeling became stronger as we talked and i began to think about licking her pussy.., i was hard i mounted her again… then i softened… but then i went down on her and i was immediately rock hard again as my dream came true.. i licked and sucked her cunt… she tasted great… i stuck my tongue inside her.,, i licked and sucked her carefully… i wanted to slide a finger inside her and feel her inside but i didnt… the thought was enough.., i was really hard when i mounted her again… she was very wet… no condom again… we didnt talk about it we just did it.., felt even better when i pushed myself in slowly then deeply again… pumping fast then slow… she gave me her ass again… i slowly entered her from behind again until i came deeply inside her.. what an amazing first time sex experience! so sweet and smooth good a deep nice connection.,. again we wrapped up in each others arms… i fell asleep eventually she did not.. we got up around 7…she had taken a shower.. i was next… then we went to a nearby greek restaurant for macchiatos.. they were strong.. then we took a nice casual stroll through the sculpture park… the exhibit was over but the view was nice… she bought some veggies from the fresh market… it was early so we decided to go deeper into the greek neighborhood for lunch… the restaurant i knew was closed so we walked to the park instead to talk and wait… we sat near the river and enjoyed our conversation… eventually we walked back to the restaurant.. it was still closed so we decided to go back to my apartment and make lunch..we went back on the subway and bought ingredients for lunch… Bar-B-Que burgers and pan fried golden potatoes.. with the famous midwestern BBQ sauce.. i drank a Bud Light while i cooked… she had a taste and then some leftover red..we ate and talked… the food and conversation were delicious… after lunch we talked more as the cats mobbed us for attention.., we moved back to the couch as we got ready to leave.., she was going home i was going to bike around the park.., i wanted to go down on her again… i wanted to taste her again… but we got ready to go and left for the city holding hands… she bought a mango smoothie along the way (too much sugar!)… we got on the train continuing our conversation… enjoying each others company… we got off at our stop… i walked her to the next connection kissed and hugged her goodbye… we smiled and parted… happy… i found a bike and circled the park… got on the street and rode to my station to go back home… what a nice experience!

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? yes i did… not sure if she did, pretty sure she enjoyed

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? no precaution no discussion assumption only

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? mine were moving relationship forward into intimacy

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? wine a bottle and a half

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? txting each other… i assume we will see each other again…i think we enjoy each others company .. the fact that we are texting each other later proves it i think…i hope we become a couple and get closer… i want to shuck her oyster again

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? my sister very vaguely, positive

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? consensual for both… i wanted her… assume she wanted me too

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no regrets

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? was best first time sex with anyone so far…

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? shamed to say probably should have used a condom … better to be safe than sorry… i was tested recently and came up negative… i’m pretty sure she is negative too since last sexual experience was more than a year ago

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