Current location: Asia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a good looking, well built Caucasian man. I had had previous encounters with a Caucasian man, but this one had a look that just drew me in. I met him at the hotel bar, where we started chatting and spent 2 days hanging out. There was a lot of joking and teasing and sexual conversation, but nothing happened until the last night…
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started innocently enough. We just hung out, there were some light, innocent touches involved. On my side I had been planning to have a fling even before I went to Jakarta. It was strange, but being in a committed relationship sometimes makes me want to rebel, be naughty. So after I met this guy I knew I wanted him. I knew he wanted me too. But we were both too shy to do anything sober..
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We finally managed to be in the same room, sober (it was hard to find alcohol there!) and we both felt a little awkward. But he suggested giving me a massage, which I love. So he had me undress, lie face down, and started massaging my back. It was amazing.
Half way through the massage he lay on top of my back, nuzzled my next and nibbled at my neck which made me so wet. He then stopped, continued massaging for a bit, before doing the same nuzzling and nibbling. He also told me how hot I was and how he was so horny for me, which in turn drove me mad. I love a man who talks dirty.
Then he turns me over, rather roughly (which again I love) and started to finger my dripping wet pussy. He was so good with his fingers, I came so quickly. He then started to lick me, while fingering me, and it drove me insane.
I couldn’t take anymore, and my pussy wanted him. But I also wanted to taste him. He was completely shaved, and his cock was just the right size. He tasted amazing..
I sucked him for a few minutes before he told me to stop, as he was gonna cum. This made me feel good cos I liked knowing I was good at it.
He then put on his condom and I straddled him, sitting on his crotch and slowly lowering myself onto his cock.
He felt really good, and I started moving on top of him, riding his hard dick. He spanked my butt and that drove me wild.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Finally after a few minutes he couldn’t take it anymore, and came. It felt really good and it was very satisfying. I wanted more, but he only had one condom with him. So yes we both orgasmed.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No we didn’t discuss it but we both knew a condom was a must
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I just wanted a different kind of sex. Dirty, rough, fast, hot and it turned me on knowing another very hot man desired me.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None whatsoever
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great, and I knew I could never tell my bf. I kept in touch for a few days but I think he also knew this was a one time thing so we have stopped contacting each other. neither are we friends on Facebook.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My old friend James. He felt it was okay, as he said we are all opportunists in real life. If a chance is presented, with no risk of being caught, most people would do it.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes consensual and definitely wanted.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not really. I did discuss with my partner if he ever wanted to hookup with someone else, I would want him to tell me. My reasoning was, “I may want to do it too!”, although he doesn’t know I’ve done it.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I learned how to enjoy myself better sexually, and I also taught the bf how to please me better. It made me feel really good, although initially there was some regret as I felt I was not a good gf to a wonderful boyfriend.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I have always been sexually open and I enjoy sex. I expect my partner to always make me feel desired and wanted, and to know how to turn me on. If I can’t get it from my partner I don’t see any problem finding it elsewhere, as long as I do not get romantically involved
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