What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Mid Atlantic USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Management
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

What Happens In Vegas

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife, Abby, and I were on vacation in Vegas. She is 10 years younger than I am, petite, with a nice body, and she is very pretty. She has amazing blue eyes and naturally curly hair. She always gets attention. We met “John”. We were not sure if we remembered his name correctly at a bar while we were there. He was about my age, taller, in decent shape, and my wife said she considered him hansome but in a rough, biker, construction type of way. He had many tats and looked like he worked as a laborer or something, although he was dressed pretty well.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After walking the stip that afternoon, we decided to eat an early dinner at a place called Twin Peaks. It’s a lot like Hooter’s where the waitresses were dressed in tight tees and short shorts. The tables were full, but there was room at the bar so we decided to eat there. We each had drinks with dinner and struck up a conversation with a very cute female bartender. My wife seemed to be attracted to her and the bartender was either playing along for a bigger tip or was possibly attracted to my wife. After we finished eating, we continued to order drinks. My wife began to get tipsy and the flirting between the two of them increased and became more obvious. The gentleman next to me, John, noticed and began to make conversation with us as well. He was very curtious to me and my wife and very complementory towards my wife. My wife asked the bartender if she minded if she got a picture of the two of them together. She agreed and came around for the pic. John, after seeing this, finally asked my wife if she had an interest in the girls like that. I could tell she was passing tipsy and on the way to full drunk because she shared with this total stranger that we used to be swingers and at times she enjoyed being with women, but she insisted that was not her goal tonight and that she preferred men. She contnued saying she did find her attractive but she was just having some flirty fun. He accepted that answer and we continued chatting. We learned that John was a divorcee of 5 years and that he was there with a couple of friends for a long weekend. He was out by himself because he had already lost a significant amount of money at the casino, so he was taking the night off from gambling while his friends continued. We also learned that he was a mechanic and formerly a Marine.

Eventually, I had to excuse myself to use the bathroom and when I returned my wife had slid into my seat next to John. I sat next to her with John on the opposite end. Apparently, he had asked her how our vacation was going and she was telling him some of the things we had done in Vegas, including spending last night at the Hustler strip club. Already seeing her flirt with the female bartender, letting him know we were former swingers, and now telling him we enjoyed the strip club together, I think he had picked up signals that we were adventurous sexually. He was right, but that had been mostly in the past. It was clear though that my wife was certainly feeling sexy and confident tonight and maybe adventurous as well. I was picking up those signals as well. As we sat and talked, John and Abby focused on each other but John ensured that I was included in the conversation and he was very mindful of me. I had seen this from my wife before and made sure I signaled to her that I was fine and ok with where this may lead. Eventually, Abby excused herself to use the restroom and while there sent me a text. She asked if I was ok and let me know that the combination of the flirting with the bartender and the drinking that she was very horny. She said she was attracted to John and that if I wanted we could invite him back to our room for a little party. I responded that I was completely on board and would follow her lead. When she returned to the bar she rejoined the conversation and ordered one more drink. As her glass was becoming empty, she told John that she was about ready to head back to the hotel room and asked him if he would be interested in joining us there. Without hesitation, he accepted the invitation. She gave him our room number and asked him to give us a 30-minute head start but to please join us. We settled our bill and excused ourselves. Our hotel was only a few minutes walk from the bar. Abby had asked for the time alone so that we could talk and ensure we were still on the same page as to where this was leading and to ensure I was ok. I let her know that I was 100% on board.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once back at our hotel room, Abby changed into something a little sexier. She left her tight jeans on and changed into a tighter low cut shirt and some high heels. This outfit was definitely showing all of her assets well. She quickly freshened up and we waited. Almost exactly 30 minutes later, there was a knock at the door. I opened it and when John saw Abby had changed, I can only imagine it confirmed what he was hoping it would be. He came in and sat in the chair next to the bed. After a couple of moments of awkward chat, I excused my self to go down the hall and get some ice. I took my time to give them a few minutes alone and when I returned my wife and John were laid back in the bed making out. I came in making some stupid comment about the ice as I sat down on the chair next to the bed. They continued for some time kissing deeply with their hands exploring each other’s bodies.

John slid his hand up Abby’s shirt finding her breasts, fondling them, and playing with her nipples. Abby sat up and removed her shirt and then his. He caressed and kissind her tits and nipples until Abby began to moan. He slowly unbuttoned her pants and slid them down removing them. He moved between her legs eating her wet pussy using his tongue to tease her clit. It didn’t take long until she spasmed in orgasmic shudders. After catching her breath she unbuttoned his pants exposing his huge erect cock. He was considerably larger than me and I think that surprised and maybe startled her just a bit. After stroking him a few times with her hand, she placed her lips around him and began to suck him off. His head rocked back in pleasure. I had an excellent seat to view the action next to the bed. I had removed my pants by now and was slowing jerking off while I watched. As Abby felt him building, she stopped, positioned herself on the bed on her hands and knees so her ass was facing him, inviting him to fuck her. He followed her lead and placed the head of his cock at the entrance of her pussy. She let out a gasp as he pushed himself in slowly. She was not used to someone so large. As he slowly gained speed fucking her from behind, she motioned to me to come over. I stood up placing my cock in front of her. She took me in her mouth while he fucked her hard from behind. He began to pick up the pace even more and began to moan. I knew he was about to come, which was all I could take as I stiffened up and shot my load down her throat. She swallowed everything I had and continued to move up and down as I spilled every last drop. John let out a load grunt releasing his cum inside my wife’s pussy. As he pulled out of her, she turned to him and cleaned off his cock with her mouth. When we finished, we poured a couple more drinks and chatted for a little while as we recovered. My wife cuddled with me while John sat on the chair. About an hour later, Abby was at it again, this time, starting with me. It was pretty much a reverse of what just happened with me taking her from behind and her giving John a blow job. The only difference was that she didn’t let him cum in her mouth. She pulled back as he was cumming and he sprayed all over her tits. After that, we were spent. John stayed just long enough to be polite and excused himself for the evening. Abby gave him a long, deep, passionate kiss before he left. There was no information exchanged just gratitude.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were tired so we quickly fell asleep. The next day, we talked about it and I let her know how hot it was and how much I enjoy watching her with other men. She knows from our days as swingers that I enjoy watching and that she enjoys performing for me. We also know that it’s only together we would do anything like this. I know she was pretty drunk as she only had fuzzy memory of parts of the night, although she remembered enough. We have talked about rejoining the swinger lifestyle from time to time, but I don’t think we will ever consciously rejoin. It will always be in the moment if everything feels right for all involved type of decision. I am ok with that becaue those experiences are always more injoyable.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just between my wife and me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Super hot sex. I love watching my wife show confidence in her sexuality. She sometimes struggles with self-image (which I can not understand as hot as she is) so when she feels good about herself it’s fun to watch.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Because it was unplanned and we were drunk we were not prepared with a condom. She is on birth control, but we didn’t use anything to protect us from STD’s. We have been tested since and everything is good. Oh, and I forgot to take any pictures or video.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really. We have formed our opinions that sex can be fun with others a long time ago. We know there are possible consequences and take action to limit the risk of negative consequences by communicating very well on wants, needs, and desires.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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