by Robert

Gender: Male

Age: 45
Race/ethnicity: White, European
Location: USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Designer
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

When in Rome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 Years

How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Didn’t know them. Met in a restaurant.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning. We were both having dinner alone, both visiting Rome on business. We started talking. Shared a bottle of wine. Went back to hotel room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing. She blew me, I came in her mouth. I went down on her, she came in mine. We carried on. We fucked twice. I came twice. She squirted several times. Fucking amazing.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No precautions. No discussions.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Attraction.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A little wine.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She left, went back to her hotel. We email on occasion, would love to see her again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Perhaps a little guilt.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best = Animal sex. Her squirting.
Worst = ?
Casual sex is awfully exciting.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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