What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? South Africa
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Consultant
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? About a week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall, body of a god…literally, hot for days!! We’ve known each other for a while but never really spoke much! Kind of like the wallpaper in your living room! You never really notice it but you know it’s there. I met him before but he never showed any interest…nor did I…I always thought he was hot all this time, but didn’t really think beyond, not sure why.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A mutual friend asked if we fancied each other and at that point it seemed as though we both agreed. I’d say I instigated the initial “breaking the ice”…but it wasn’t long before we started chatting casually. I wouldn’t say we necessarily planned to do anything per say, but the idea wasn’t completely off the table.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We eventually went for coffee and formally met, since we knew of each other. He stays abroad and I’m back home so essentially he was only home for a couple of weeks.
By now we kind of flirted and perhaps even hinted at some sort of sexual pursuit.
We casually met for coffee soon after he landed and although there was no initial flirting I knew that I wouldn’t mind having him hard up against me…
When leaving he walked me to my car, like a real gentlemen…we converstated until we got into my car. He then kissed me and I then got on top of him. Not something I usually do but once I felt his hard penis against my vagina, I couldn’t help but rub up against him.
Before I left I told him that we were having a party that weekend and he should totally come…….
Before the party we would chat and well we went from casual pursuit to what I’d do to you once I see you…
Each time he texted me I would be more aroused at the thought of being with him sexually…
At the party we were pretty much casual with each other but as the night progressed we expressed subtle hints that we’d rather go somewhere and be alone as by now the sexual tension was uncanning,
We left the party…and well I couldn’t host him so we decided to go to his place since he stayed in a hotel, naturally!
As he reached for his keys to the room…I could feel my clit throbbing. He is so tall and his body is just amazing, I fantasized about him having me up against the wall at least several times during the night.
Without hesitation I got on his bed…he told me to get undressed as he had something for me. He tossed a scarf at me and told me to wrap it around my eyes and lay on my back, I couldn’t help but be submissive.
I layed naked on the bed and he came over and started kissing me slowing…I could feel the fluids rushing to my pussy, I was dripping wet. Each part of my body was aroused from excitement as I had no idea what he would do. He then pulled out some whipped cream. And told me he was going to cover me in it…I obliged.
He then sprayed whipped cream all over my naked body, he moved slowly from my lips to my neck down to my hard nipples, which he slowly caressed with his lips, he moved lower to my inner thighs and my wet pussy. At this point I was so ready for him to fuck me, I was beyond horny for him.
He then proceeded to lick me all the way, he started kissing and sucking my clitoris….And then, he ate me out. He grabbed my thighs and pulled me towards his face, I started moaning as I was already reaching my climax, I took the blind fold off and watched him lick me all the way until I had an orgasm.
At this point he got on top of me and put his hard dick inside my creamed up wet pussy. As he went deeper I moaned louder as my wrapped my legs around his manly body! Grabbing onto his broad shoulders as he went harder and deeper, I was dripping wet as he fucked me harder.
Her then stopped suddenly and went on to interst his two fingers into my dripping pussy. The more that I moanded the harder he fingered me!! Right before he hit my G spot and orgasmed again!
He then turned me on my tummy and lifted my ass slightly. And he put his big hard dick into my tight wet pussy and he whispered in my ear asking me if I wanted him to fuck be harder and deeper!!
As his body was up against me I could feel my cliterous rubbing up against the sheets he fucked me harder until he came.
I orgasmed so hard! My inner thighs were shook! I wouldn’t let the night end before I got on top of him and asked him if he wanted me to suck him, I slowly licked his head, flicking my tongue against his shaft as he grabbed my hair. I then put his hard dick inside my mouth deeper and deeper and he moaned I sucked him harder…
Needless to say! We finished the whipped cream
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning we took a shower together where he lighted me up against the wall! As he fucked me!
I had no idea we would have sex all night then most of the morning!!
We then had breakfast! He was sweet, right before he took me back to his room and had me again!
I’m not sure how I feel about him, think he is kinda cool, insanely sexy and his sex though!! Every part of my body felt each and every sensation.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone yet
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Definitely his body and how he effortlessly handled my body! The fact that he is sexy AF wasn’t to bad either
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it had to end so soon
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Definitely into exploring more and experiencing more erotic pleasures
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? 69
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m not one for casual sex in fact this was the first time I had sex with anyone only after a week. Think it’s really subjective! Each to his own! Have fun either way…
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Yes
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