What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Cheltenham
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We had been married for a few years and were in our late twenties. We had no children yet. There was a young couple who we got on with very well. We had them round for dinner.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Following dinner at our place, we ended up playing strip poker after a few drinks. Eventually, my wife was down to her bra and pants. She lost the next hand so the bra came off. She has large DD breasts, and she sat there fondling them and smiling. She obviously was enjoying the attention. I was consumed with lust, so I stood up and pulled her to her feet saying to the others that ‘I had something that I had to do’. I took her to the bedroom and we got naked and started having sex….noisily.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On the edge of orgasm, I heard the door open. I saw that the other couple had come into the room and they were naked. The male had a large erection. My wife reached out and curled her fingers around his cock. Smiling and licking her lips, she pulled his cock towards her mouth and started sucking it. Seeing this, I came rapidly.
I rolled off her, but she carried on sucking his cock. He reached down with his right hand and masturbated her to orgasm. At the same time, he came in her mouth.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Following some recovery time, the guest’s wife started sucking my cock until I was hard, then mounted me in cowgirl position and pumped me until I came. We arranged a return match, and during that session, we spit-roasted my wife (me having her from behind and him with his cock in her mouth).

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was the first time I had experienced group sex. I discovered that my wife was slightly bisexual (she finds slim, pretty brunettes attractive). This led to creative foursomes with this couple.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Would love to do it again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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