by Duke

Gender: Male
Age: 45
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: New Jersey
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Business Executive
Relationship status: Married
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Two

Wife Swap

How long ago did this hookup happen? Nine Years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Angela was a pretty blonde, five six and fit, with a nice pair of D cup breasts.  I thought she was attractive and liked her.  Back then she was married to a guy named Paul and my wife and I had met the couple towards the end of our swinger days.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Now currently my wife and I have an open marriage and while I love her, my wife has a very low sex drive.  That was not always the case and once we were quite sexually adventurous and experimental. We tried a lot of things with just us and had sex all kinds of places including a few that were very public, invited others to join us in the bedroom, and even were part of a swingers group for a while.
The swingers group had broken up about a year before and Paul and Angela had joined us towards the end and hadn’t gotten to do much.  My wife and I had liked them and stayed in contact after the group split up.  We ate dinner together and went out on double dates with them and all four of us discussed either looking for or maybe starting our own swingers group.  My wife and I had enjoyed ourselves but we were never huge fans of the lifestyle, it’s a lot of work.  We finally decided to swap spouses for one night as an experiment.
We dressed up a little and I dropped my wife by their place and picked up Angela.  She was dressed in tight pants and a shirt that showed a little cleavage.  Paul and my wife were going to stay at their house while Angela and I went to a nearby hotel since we had kids at home.  My wife and seemed eager and enthusiastic but Angela was quiet the entire drive to the hotel.
We checked into our room and I could sense she was really nervous.  I told her we didn’t have to do anything until she was ready, and we sat on the bed and talked for a while.  Angela calmed down a little and I put my hand on her thigh and made a move to kiss her and she didn’t resist and Angela kissed me back.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out a bit and took our clothes off, and I hadn’t realized how fit Angela actually was and she had a little bit bigger tits than I expected.  I sucked on her tits for a while and got the impression she was still nervous and unsure and I decided to move downwards and took a chance and began to eat her out.   Angela started to moan loudly and said it had been a while since she had oral.  She and an orgasm and I was quite pleased with myself.  I really enjoy sex, but I also get a thrill out of making sure a woman enjoys herself and gets off.
Angela had to relax for a little bit and then asked what I would like to do to her.   I had been tracing a tattoo on her back for a few minutes and asked how she felt about doggie and ended up fucking her for about ten minutes that way until I finished.  We cuddled for a bit and fell asleep.
In the morning we didn’t plan on fucking again but I caught sight of Angela as she came out of the shower and had to have her.  I ended up fucking her on the counter in the bathroom.  Angela kept complaining her ass was cold.  I finished and came inside her and she orgasamed as well.  Angela told me she had quite enjoyed herself and was interested in seeing me again but would need to discuss it with Paul.  I dropped her back home and picked up my wife.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? All three times and Angela did twice

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? STIs didn’t really come up and I used a condom the first time I penetrated her.  I didn’t the second time and we had decided to all be safe so Angela and I decided to keep that I finished inside her to ourselves.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to and really enjoy sex and with different women

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We swapped spouses a few more times over the next year and I really enjoyed my nights with Angela.  However she and Paul split about a year later because he was sleeping with another woman on the side and keeping it to himself, something I have learned from.   I also always got the impression while she enjoyed sex with me, it was Paul who got off on the idea of his wife with another man and he was the one more into the open marriage/swinger lifestyle.
We are still in contact with Angela and she comes for dinner on occasion, but I haven’t had sex with her in many years.  As for Paul, no one has really heard from him since his divorce from Angela.  I am friends with her but have no romantic intentions towards Angela.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife and I did discuss details of our nights with Paul and Angela rather enthusiastically

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was pretty good once we got going, I think the worst part was how nervous Angela was.   I did learn swinging can be quite difficult and you need to abide by the terms you and your spouse agree to.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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