by Brian

Gender: Male
Age: mid-40s
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Northeast
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Finance
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One

Wife’s Coworker

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One time encounter

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Every year, we host a 4th of July barbecue/party at our house for family, friends, and a few coworkers.  This year, my wife invited one of her new coworkers who had relocated from another state and didn’t really know anyone in our area.  The coworker showed up with her husband and two kids.  I wasn’t particularly drawn to her physically, but didn’t find her unappealing by any means; she’s Irish, petite, and dirty blonde.  Over the course of the afternoon and evening, my wife’s coworker would find her way into whatever conversation I was having with the other guests.  I found her to be loud and always trying to draw the attention to herself, which was annoying.  It came up in conversation that I love playing tennis and she mentioned she was looking for a tennis partner.  My wife volunteered me and reluctantly I made plans to meet her the following weekend at a free court in the park.  I wasn’t looking forward to it, but didn’t want to be rude.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I arrived at the tennis court at 10am as we agreed and she was already there stretching.  She looked sexy in her tennis skirt and sports tank top; it was clear she works out regularly.  Her legs and arms are toned and her stomach is flat.  We played for about two hours until it got too hot.  As we walked back to our cars, she invited me to her house for lunch.  I said no at first, but she insisted because her husband had taken her kids camping and she was alone for the weekend.  I went over to house with the intention of spending an hour at most, but really wanting to cut out within half an hour.  She gave me a tour of her house, fixed me a drink, and then we went out and sat by the pool making small talk about our jobs.  She stood up and suggested we go for a swim and I told her I didn’t have my swim trunks.  She said I didn’t need it and proceeded to strip down in front of me and jumped in the pool.  When she came up for air, she asked if I was going to join her.  I stripped down and jumped in too, we both did laps.  When we got tired of swimming, we just floated around and splashed each other; she got close to me, kissed me, and said we should get out of the pool.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She got out of the pool before me, went inside, and came back out with two towels.  She toweled off, spread her towel next to the pool, and laid out on her back and closed her eyes without a concern that she was completely naked.  I just stared at her as I toweled myself off; at that point I was completely aroused.  I laid on top of her and she wrapped her legs around my waist.  We kissed passionately, I enjoyed the feel of her body underneath mine, and then she reached between us to guide my cock into her pussy.  We fucked in missionary, then she said she wanted to be on top so we flipped over and she rode me reverse cowgirl.  I said I was close to cumming and she got off me.  She said she wanted to continue in the shower so we went up to the shower in her master bedroom, which could easily fit half a dozen people.  We took turns soaping each other up and then I fucked her from behind standing up while she played with her clit.  She was vocal about her orgasm, which drove me over the edge and I came inside her.  She got out of the shower and I soaped up some more to clean myself off.  She had gone down to get my clothes from outside; I dressed and went downstairs to wait for her as she got herself together.  She came down, kissed me, and thanked me for a “good workout”.  Neither one of us said anything about a repeat performance and I left to go home.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, we both had orgasms.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No precautions, we didn’t even talk about STIs.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had no reason, she made it abundantly clear she wanted to fuck and I went along with it.  I think she was lonely and probably bored with her marriage.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No, we both had homemade lemonade before anything happened.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing happened.  We didn’t make plans to meet again and that’s fine with me.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hookup was fucking outside by the pool, nothing bad about this hookup at all.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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