What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Antonio
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Legal
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Eager?
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Wife’s First Bisexual Romp

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two Weeks Ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Our partners are friends of ours. She is a colleague who works with me and is 20 years younger. We know each other from business and work and became friends. We have been “planning” this for months but couldn’t blend our schedules. They live in Houston and we live in San Antonio. We have met as a foursome for dinner previously. We all like each other. We are a little older than them.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My wife has had a crush on Jill and wanted to try lesbian sex for the first time with her. So we planned the weekend where my wife Britt’s teen girls would babysit Jill’s 4 year old son while we went to “dinner” – actually went to a nearby hotel. (Which just flooded in Hurricane Harvey).

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to get a couple of drinks first to loosen up. Then we went to the hotel and it had a little sitting area. We were all drinking some more and talking. I went to the bathroom and returned without any pants or underwear. Just my shirt. The girls both began rubbing me and then blowing me. The husband, Gary, started filming and he became the videographer for the night, not really participating.

The girls started blowing me together and then began kissing each other. They stripped off their dresses and were on their knees in front of me while I sat in a chair and Gary filmed. Jill began feeling up Britt and then sucking her boobs. Britt has a super hot body ESPECIALLY for 46. They kissed and stroked each other there when I encouraged them to go to the bed.

On the bed, Jill went down on Britt first and made her cum within five minutes. Much faster than me. I sucked Britt’s titties while Jill licked her pussy. Then, after Britt came, Britt went down on Jill. While Britt went down on Jill – her first taste of pussy – I licked her ass and pussy from behind. And Gary kept filming. I moved to the head of the bed and Jill took my cock in her mouth as I sucked her nipples while Britt licked her pussy. Jill came pretty hard.

At that point, Britt wanted some water. That pretty much broke up the sexual tension and at that point, Jill wanted to get back as did Britt.

Gary and I never came. But thank god for his filming. I have cum multiple times since then.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went home to their house and the next morning, Jill made breakfast for us AND THE KIDS! Wasn’t awkward at all. Jill’s post-game analysis was we need a night where we don’t have to return to any kids. This is why it took so long in the first place.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my wife Britt and my colleague Jill.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Watching my wife eat not only another woman’s pussy but my colleague’s pussy.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ended too soon without actual fucking.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nah.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I think something as riveting as two women having sex in a foursome is actually so overwhelming to the senses that the idea of interrupting it with my dick seemed like a banal act that would not be rewarded. I think this sort of encounter has to be experienced more than once to become comfortable and familiar with it.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I believe everyone wants casual sex. Everyone. It’s biological and part of our survival package. However, we are indoctrinated early and often to fight that natural urge. There would be vastly LESS divorce if couples had open relationships. On a scale of 1-10, my jealousy used to be 8-10 all the time. Now, it hardly reaches a one. I am happy for Britt to be with others with or without me. I trust her. And she trusts me. Together, we have incredible sex and when we can, we have sex with others.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it. Truly beneficial to the advancement of society.

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