What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M’s a long time friend of my wife. She’s 42, divorced 3 times, looks like a ‘high maintenance’ fake blonde with fake tits. She’s very flirty with me when she’s between husbands. My wife doesn’t mind and often jokes that M could have me but between the way she uses guys then tosses them away, it’d be a toss-up who’d leave who first.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My wife and kids took a trip to the beach. Due to an unforeseen deadline at work, I had to stay behind. M was at our house the day before helping us pack the minivan and offered to have me over for dinner a couple of nights. I was hesitant but my wife thanked M and insisted I take her up on the offer at least once. I told her I’d come over after work Monday evening.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I left work an hour early and went to M’s. She opened the door wearing a pair of tight capris & a sports bra that could barely contain her massive fake tits. She wasn’t expecting me this early and had just put the Cornish Hens in the oven. She took a sip of wine and said, “We’ve got 35 minutes to kill. What do you want to do?” I gave her ass a smack and said, “We can fuck.” She shrugged her shoulders and said, “Sure.” She jumped up on me and I carried her to the bedroom. Once our clothes were off we did 69. She was smooth, wet, and ready for sex. I got on top and her eyes rolled back when I rammed inside her wet moist pussy. We were still having sex when the oven timer went off. She ran through the house naked to turn off the oven. She came back and we continued until we both got off. We took a break for dinner then had sex two more times. I went to her place each night that week for dinner and sex.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? M is still friend’s with my wife and nothing has changed as far as how we act around each other. We’ve hooked-up secretly twice since.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex and titty fucking her.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’ve been having sex with the same partner for 20+ years. Sex with my wife is still great but it’s nice having sex with someone else for a change. My wife and I have good chemistry but we also have a bedroom routine.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve lusted after M’s amazing body and fantasized about seeing her tits for so long. I had the perfect opportunity to ask her to fuck and I’m glad I did. We both agree to keep things discrete. It would be nice if we didn’t have to hook-up in secret. I’ve never told anyone but I work with plenty of people that admit being secretly unfaithful. I think it’s becoming more common now. My wife was raised in a strict Christian environment and I know she would never agree to an open relationship so for now M and I are keeping things secret.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I found this site a month ago and I’ve read many similar stories. I was hesitant at first but finally decided to type my story and submit it. I almost feel relieved after I proofread it the first time. I wish society wouldn’t look at casual sex in a bad way.
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