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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 59
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Attorney
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I am more attracted to women but also enjoy sex with men
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 95
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 11

Wild Night at a Swinger Club (Part 1 of 2)

How long ago did this hookup happen? March 2018

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? T is a stunning 46-year-old female with a smoking hot, inked body. She looked early 30’s and is one of the most gorgeous, fit and sexy females I’ve ever played with. I met her at a swinger’s club in Florida while on vacation. L is a beautiful woman with a fit and trim body in her late 50’s, I also met her at the club that evening. I was extremely attracted to T and really enjoyed chatting with her and her husband. I also enjoyed talking with L, who is very intelligent, but her husband kept giving me the evil eye and then finally told me he did not like lawyers. I told him that we had that in common!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to a swinger club in Florida with a married couple who I play with. The three of us were on vacation and they had been to this club before. It was my first time at the club and J (the wife) wanted to do a few BDSM scenes with me as her sub so I wore a leash and collar at the club. J knew L and introduced me to her. Shortly after talking with L, J ordered me to meet and talk to a girl I did not know in the club and report back on what I found. That is how I met T. After meeting T and her hubby, all seven of us went to the club’s dungeon where J and I did a few BDSM scenes and everyone else watched. This made all three girls very wet so we decided to all find a room to play in.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The seven of us (three married couples and me) found a large private room in the club with two king-size canopy beds, couches, and a sex sling. T, her husband, L and me were on one bed. The girls and I were naked, T’s husband was dressed. The girls kissed, then sucked each other’s breasts. L went down on T while I licked L’s ass and pussy. I then sucked T’s toes, and T sucked my cock while L kept going down on her. T came so many times we lost count. After the girls were done, L’s husband got on the bed and invited me to do a threeway with him and L. He fucked her doggie style while she sucked my cock at the same time. It was one hot evening!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had a great time and slept very well that night. My married friends also had a blast, so we decided to return to the club the next evening (that will be part 2 of this story).

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told some married friends back home, they were in awe of the sexual experiences I continue to have at this age.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Participating in two threeways the same evening. Watching live lesbian sex between two stunning girls while participating in the fun.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? T’s husband was not thrilled that she sucked my cock. He had previously told me I could watch but not touch her. He did not seem to mind me sucking her toes but when she sucked my cock, he told her to stop. That might have been a game they play together as he did not get mad at me.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me want more casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was an amazing evening of hot sex!

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex and I think more people should have casual sex more often. Open minded attitudes toward sexuality are very important.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!

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