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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Attorney
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 95
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 12

Wild Night at a Swinger Club (Part 2 of 2)

How long ago did this hookup happen? March 2018

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? F was a married woman who I met for the first time in a bedroom in a swinger club in Daytona Beach, Florida. She was introduced to me by her husband who asked me to fuck her. She was attractive and compliant so I agreed.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This was the second night in a row that I attended a swinger club while on vacation with my married friends, B & J. We like to play dom/sub games so, at J’s (the wife) insistence, I wore a collar and leash and nothing else in the club. First, we played in the dungeon where, unfortunately, a fight broke out. I was almost assaulted and my friend (B) beat up the guy who tried to assault me. This made J very hot to fuck me so we left the dungeon and found a room for J and me to have sex.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? J wanted me to fuck her in a large bedroom in the club so the three of us entered the room. There were two king-size canopy beds, one was unoccupied and the other was being used by a married couple. J and I got in the empty bed and started to fuck bareback. The husband from the other bed came over and watched us fuck while B played with his wife. After J and I were done fucking, the husband invited me to fuck his wife. First, she gave me a blowjob, then I put on a condom and fucked her. We fucked for a while until she said my cock was too large and was hurting her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I then met a stunning young female who I made out with and felt up on the dance floor of the sex club. She played with my hard cock on the dance floor and told me she watched the fight in the dungeon and that it turned her on and she wanted to have sex with me. Unfortunately, it was very late. B&J were ready to leave and I was riding with them. Plus, after fucking two women that night and almost being attacked, I was done for the evening. I told B&J on the ride home that the dom/sub thing was improperly handled by them and I would no longer be wearing a collar and a leash at sex clubs.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few trusted friends. They were in awe that I have these wild experiences.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fucking two hot women and having my cock played with by a third hottie.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Almost got beaten up.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, no more collars and leashes at sex clubs for me.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? This was the second of two wild nights at this swinger club in Daytona Beach, Florida. I played with 5 women in two nights there. Not bad for a 59-year-old.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am a big fan of casual sex. I think when people learn to distinguish between sex and love, they become much happier.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!

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