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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami, FL
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 19

With A Married Marathon Runner

How long ago did this hookup happen? a month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s 44, thin and tall (6’ 7”), bald, average looking, married with 4 kids and a CPA. I met him at a half marathon training course.

Things have been crazy lately. Clair (my BF’s ex) dropped out of college, moved in with my BF and they decided to get back together. Everyone’s cool but it’s time to move on. Since then, I’ve used Tinder for a few hook-ups, nothing to write a story about. I’ve also been spending more time with my golf instructor. I’ll add that story later.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Last week, I noticed a sign for a half-marathon and I decided to enter. I checked online and joined a training class that meets 3 times a week. The first meeting was on Friday evening and only 5 people showed up. He sat across from me and I noticed he kept checking me out. When class was over, I stayed and talked to him. He’d done a few marathons before. His wife and kids were out of town for a few days so he was only interested in listening to the diet portion and didn’t plan to attend any more classes. The talking led to flirting (mostly me). I suggested we make plans to go for a run the next morning. He agreed.

We met at a local beach access. He didn’t drive so he’d already ran 4 miles. After our cool down, we got green smoothies, sat at a picnic table and talked. Black clouds were moving in so I offered him a ride, he was hesitant but took me up on the offer because it was starting to rain. He got in my car and slid the seat all the way back because he was so tall. On the way to his place, I moved my right hand over his crotch and began to rub his shorts and he got hard quickly. I arrived at his place and while in his driveway I complimented his cock and said, “I’d love to give you some relief.” With no pause, he said, “Let’s go.” We got inside and I followed him to the master bedroom.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I took off my shorts and sat on the bed. He took off his tank top and shorts. His cock was thin, long, and already hard. He put on a condom I’d given him earlier. He stood between my open legs, pressed the head to my wet pussy and slowly entered. His thin cock had no trouble going in as I watched. The feeling was a little different at first but after he started fucking, the pointed tip of his cock found my g-spot and I began to cum a lot. I was getting close so I recommended doggy. I flipped over, stuck my ass in the air and he went in from behind. He instantly found a spot and I had an orgasm. He finished soon afterward.

After a quick bathroom break, I got dressed and left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We agreed it was a one-time thing so we didn’t exchange contact info. There were many people at the event so I don’t know if he competed or not.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My BFF Beck. She thought it was a hot story.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Meeting someone new and having amazing sex.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. It was all good.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I love being spontaneous and having sex with a guy I just met.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Appearances can be misleading. He looked like an average nerdy husband/father and I thought would never agree to a casual hook-up. I was shocked he agreed quickly and easily. I was also planning on giving a lot of head and only receiving a quickie. However, the experience was amazing! He was already hard so I didn’t have to give head. We had sex for a long time and he was able to give me an orgasm. We agreed it was a one-time thing but I’d hook-up with him again.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think more people should explore having protected casual sex with someone they feel comfortable with.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great place to share stories and read others.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!