What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Francisco
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Wonder Woman of Casual Orgasms

How long ago did this hookup happen? A month

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tom was short and sweet, incredibly funny and very thoughtful. Great beard, about 20 pounds overweight and in need of some braces. We met online, we hooked up on the third date and I felt very safe with him, I only hook up with people that I feel safe with.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Began at the bar, moved back to my apartment, intense chemistry lead to it and there was no planning involved, I instigated it, he was very respectful and reserved but I wanted it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Oral only, I felt amazing and sexy and well taken care of, he behaved very thoughtfully and gave me many compliments. He was an excellent lover, we talked about what we liked and it ended with me having an orgasm and sending him home.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great, he immediately texted me and we made plans to see each other again and after a few dates realized we had different endgame goals (I don’t want children) and we parted ways as friends, he sometimes still comes over to eat my pussy when he is in the mood and I let him.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device), No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Anyone and they were impressed and happy for me

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Best head I have ever received

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? that we did not want the same things and he had a small penis :/

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? nope

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex, it leaves me fulfilled and feeling sexy as I search for my life partner. I am a very sexual being and I don’t find it fair or reasonable that I should not be sexually active because I have not found my future husband. People attach TOO much meaning to sex if they were able to focus on the pleasure rather than the “meaning” they too could enjoy themselves and discover amazing things about their own body that brings them joy. I wish more ppl could lighten em, casual sex is not as good as committed sex but it still is fun!

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