What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Stockbroker
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last summer
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Danish, ordinary face, huge breasts and good body, blonde.
She started at my work the previous December. She was Jewish too and I remember someone making a joke that we would hook up. We chatted a little at the Christmas party but otherwise had little to do with each other at work.
A few months later we were out with a bunch of other work people, 4 girls and another guy at a club near work. After a few drinks we started dancing and then kissed for a while. I had to leave so nothing happened then.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She bumped into another work friend on a night out and he told me that she’d just been gushing about how great I was, a nice boost. There was another opportunity soon at someone’s leaving party. I got so drunk that halfway through the night I blacked out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? All I remember from the rest of the night was how tight her vagina was, her moans as she came and me coming.
I woke up in the morning and was surprised to see her naked in my bed. ‘How did you get here?’ I said to which she replied sexily ‘I have my ways’. I don’t think she got that I genuinely didn’t have a clue. I took in her body for the first time – her boobs looked big and luscious and her vagina was shaved. We got it on again and I soon got her to leave.
The next and final encounter was after another work event (notice the pattern?) and at the end of the night when people were deciding where to go next I just grabbed her and asked if she wanted to come back to my place which she did. When we got to my room she said she was in a relationship now (with her now husband) and that this was just sex. I was fine with that. I undressed her, spanked her playfully which she liked and squeezed and sucked those amazing boobs. I went down on her. I love doing that anyway but because her’s was the first shaved vagina if seen I was more into it. There was less passion from her this time so I fast forwarded a bit, took my clothes off, got her on top of me and got on with it. I came quickly, she did not. She smiled and gave me a hug, turned the light off and went to sleep holding me tightly.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She woke up and left early. Nothing happened again, we chatted a little at work and she soon left London.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Blacked out / Passed out
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I was too out of it / passed out / asleep and therefore unable to give consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A work mate fling is one for the bucket list. She was hot, really into me. It wasn’t at all awkward at work after with no fallout.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Should have made more of it, maybe tried to fuck her in the office or the work showers. I guess a more involved relationship could have got complicated though.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I love casual sex. It’s fun
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I love that I still get a boner 15 months on when I think about her. Weird that she married now with a kid on the way.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s normal in London and other big cities but strangely frowned upon elsewhere. I love it, many of my female friends do too.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like the formula. Such a cross section of stories.
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