Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: single
Religious affiliation: catholic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Working Out with my Gym Instructor
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? fuck buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him at the gym, he was my gym instructor so he was fit, not too tall but he has a nice tight body, dark hair, a beard and older than me, I think he was like 32 years old.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I got a new job in the city where I was born so I moved out there, and I started going to the gym after work, it was near my apartment. The first week he was teaching me the routine and we talk a little, I saw it like a normal thing and didn’t feel attracted to him. The next week he asked me out to dance salsa but i I don’t know how to dance that, instead we went to a bar, have a couple of beers and talk. He told me he has 3 kids! so I knew this would never be a relationship, besides his conversation was not that interesting. Nothing happened taht night. The next week he asked me if we can see each other in my apartment for make my diet plan and take my measures, a cheap excuse but I agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He came into my apartment and we talked about exercise, healthy eating, etc. Then he told me he needed to take my measurements to know the exercises best for me, I was a little shy about it but let him do it, he touched my waist (knowing where this was going). Then he told me to turn over to see the shape of my ass haha so I unbuttoned my pants and turned, the i get dressed again. He was about to leave and we were about to say goodbye and started kissing me. Quickly we went to my bedroom while kissing and taking off our clothes.
He sat on my bed and I sat on his lap already all naked. He started licking my boobs and touching my vagina and clit so I got wet very fast. He laid me down and started doing me oral sex, then I asked me if he had a condom but he didn’t. So he told me we could just touch each other with no penetration, but then he rubbed his penis against my vagina and it felt so good and I really liked to watch how his penis was very hard rubbing me. So naturally I couldn’t hold and introduce his cock on me.
We fucked in various positions and he seems to really know what he was doing, I’ve never been with no one that experienced!
After we finish he just left.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had finish a previous relationship and my gym trainer had a nice body.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we continue as fuck buddies. He used to go to my apartment after training and fucked me and then just leave. This was ok for me because I didn’t like him for a boyfriend, no feelings involved at all.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told to my best friend and he just laughed.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, for both.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was that there was not commitment. The only goal was pleasure and satisfaction. And that he made me feel good about my body because he was talkative during sex. He told me that my buddy was yummy and before this I didn’t think that cause I was not very fit.
The worst was that almost at the end of this “relationship” the mother of his children was starting to get suspicious.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Sometimes I miss his skills and penis. But I use these memories to masturbate. (:
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