What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Laboratory work
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I can’t say anymore that beautiful, she was about 5’6 dark brown hair, slightly curvy, spankable bum, nice legs gorgeous dark eyes. I known her for about 3-4 months before anything happened, we had similar things in common, she worked in another department at my work. I liked her more than I should. Let’s call her K.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At work, we began flirting and it got cheekier and cheekier as time went on progressing so we were waiting in the printing room we were stood a bit closer together than necessary, we turned at the same time and we kissed that was the start of it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It all came to a head when she was sent on a training course and stayed in a hotel it was only 40 mins away from work but it was a few days long. I was going on one myself at a different location but had to drive past. So I said I pop in for some lunch, we never made it to lunch, I knocked on her door, I could hear the shower running but she answered wearing only a towel looking stunning and said “I just need a shower I will be quick just put the tv on” so I began walking over to the bed the bathroom door closed behind me so carried on walking. K said “im ready” as I turned the towel dropped to the floor I was in awe and totally stunned I couldn’t move. She walked up to me and kissed me it was electric! We had sex all afternoon in various positions and locations around the room it was perfect if I’m honest
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hooked up a few more times afterward, I felt amazing afterward but did feel a bit guilty too. We both had long-term partners so I don’t suppose anything could of come of it. My expectations were met and some, I could actually say we were both in a Love/lust with each other and if we were single could have made something of it. We still remain friends although she got a better job about 6 months after. Still talk now and again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t told anyone it’s my happy secret to keep and inner torment at the same time
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Everything was awesome and I slightly miss the closeness and passion of the whole scenario from beginning of the flirting to the end result.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Feeling guilty about cheating
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It hasn’t changed my outlook on casual sex I think it is a great thing but not when your already with someone. I hate the fact that I cheated cause I never thought I would and slightly hate myself for it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve never had that much casual sex to be honest I’ve always been in relationships
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a naughty read and thought I’d share mine
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