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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New Haven
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? IT
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Conservative
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 yrs ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He looked like a cool guy that played in bands at that time. I told my friends that I wanted a guy to have sex with just once so I could release some tension, and they said they knew a nice guy that took videos of his sexual exploits with girls that wanted to try it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at my house and he set up some video cameras. We did plan to do a video, and it was my idea to get it all started.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Just normal sex, really. We laughed and had a good time with it. Oral, vaginal, different positions, titfuck. He was really gentle and kind. Good lover. Ended after getting some camera angles set to get a good view when he came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt satisfied and happy. I had no expectations of being with Mr. Right or getting a boyfriend just because I had sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my best friends. They had done this themselves so no judgments.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being naughty, having fun, being treated respectfully, having a tape afterward.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really bad.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, just taught me you can have fun with it and your body and sex doesn’t always have to mean any more than that.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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