What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Secret
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Senior Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Rampant
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Hundreds… honestly maybe close to a thousand or more if you include “just blowjobs”.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first… I think it’s time to write it all down
You Want My Friend?
How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My friend was actually a friend of a friend. He was a young guy – about 20, tall, thin, cool hair but a VERY shy guy.
The girl that wanted him was a very sultry girl in her early 20s (maybe 21 or 22). She had a smashing body, tiny little waist and nice round tits, almost too big for her body. What I remember most was the look in her eyes… she looked hungry for sex!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So we’re all at the pub having a few beers. the way it used to go was that some of my closest friends would amble in, we’d watch some football in the afternoon, have dinner and then drinks as the pub turned from pub to nightclub in the evenings.
This young guy had turned up as a friend of a friend and you could instantly tell he was very shy and a little awkward. A girl was hanging around with her friends and while I was chatting to her (trying to hit on her) she kept glancing at the young guy. BASTARD! He was going to hook this tasty little thing.
I watched and waited… chatted to her some more… queried him why he wasn’t talking to her (He admitted to just being too shy)… and I eventually said to her something like, “We’re all adults and you’re obviously seeking a wild night out but my friend is very shy. I tell you what, if I get him over to my apartment you can fuck him… but I’m going to watch and give you the option of a second round once you’re done”.
It took her about 10 seconds to say “That’s a deal, daddy” and the plan was set.
It was actually harder to get him to agree but eventually, I told him it was time for a mission and tonight this girl was his mission.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The three of us crossed the road and went up to my apartment. We had a drink in the lounge room and then she started to “seduce him.” I swear he was acting like he’d never had a girl before but by the time she had his pants unzipped and his cock in her mouth I’d pulled my cock out and was slowly stroking it while watching them.
Eventually, we made her way into the bedroom and I was surprised that she had a massive (but beautiful) tattoo from under her arm, across her rib cage and down her hip and onto her ass. She was definitely a naughty girl.
At one point early on she was on her back with him fucking her missionary style and I was sitting on the bed next to them caressing her tits and I noticed her intensity growing when I grabbed her tits or nipple hard. My hand crept up to her throat and I help her gently around the throat while the young dude is fucking her and as she looked into my eyes I said, “You like watching getting fucked don’t you? Do you want my other friends to come over”?
A nod of her head and a muffled “YES” and I was out of the bedroom and on my phone. 10 minutes later my other mates turned up still with beers in hand but they thought I was shitting them – and all nearly died when looking in the bedroom seeing this girl up on top of the young guy riding him.
So I’m back onto the playing with her magnificent tits and teasing her imagination while the others are shyly standing around drinking beer and watching.
The young guy finally finishes in his condom and everyone else adjourns to the lounge room and balcony when I ask her if she was ready for round two.
Turns out this girl was indeed hungry for sex and took everything I could throw at her. We fucked and sucked and pounded and exploded like there was no tomorrow… and when the others realized what was going on in the bedroom they’d casually, or discretely glance into the room as they went to grab more beers.
The session in total probably lasted over four hours and as everyone else left that night she kind of just casually stayed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We ended up having an arrangement where we would hang out casually, but there was no commitment. I’d get other guys (and girls) in to fuck her from time to time and at other times we were both free to play our own nasty games – together, and when we were apart.
This wasn’t my first or last crazy sex-based relationship but it was one that stood out because of her voracious appetite for sex. She just couldn’t get enough.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method, I only ever came in her mouth
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My mates laughed and joked about this for ages and a few of them had their turn with her. She was an extremely open girl that freely admitted to loving cock and she loved the way our friendship was going.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was just enormous fun for all involved because there were no bullshit or lies – everyone was completely open with what they wanted.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Sooner or later you have to grow up and have a real relationship and when I met another girl and started dating her I knew the free-for-all sex sessions couldn’t continue.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’ve been in a committed relationship for about 4 years now and I can only wonder what the young ones get up to now. This happened when I was around 35 yrs old and while I still get to be rampant at times, I can never be so free as I was then.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I do wonder where she is now… how she settled down and what her life partner would think if he/she knew what their loved-one was like when she was younger.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I sound like a complete hypocrite… I’m a Christian that goes to church and yet I had a debaucherous life when younger and still now I sin – BUT, I am human, I have my weaknesses, I don’t hurt others and I am totally open about situations when they arise. I’m a good man (I think), responsible, professional, a good father and role model, but I fucking love sex and the world of pleasure that awaits.
Some will flame me because they HATE Christians, but being a Christian doesn’t mean we are perfect… but I would hope we are at least caring, thoughtful and honest with our partners.
(Yes my current wife knows about my past… she knows who and what I am and in fact, at times she arranges little adventures for me as a reward for caring for our family so much).
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I didn’t know it existed and if it’s real it would be interesting to see the research that comes out of it. There’s a lot of BS sites where fairly average people terribly embellish their stories (or totally manufacture them) but I’m interested in browsing this more to see if I can reflect on other’s experiences – or if others are interested in me sharing more of my experiences.
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