by Do I Really Gotta?

Gender: Male
Age: 42
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: TX
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Engineer
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Unitarian?
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Constantly craves sex, any kind
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30-ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

 Yup, Busted

How long ago did this hookup happen? 24 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? On Again / Off Again Relationship

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met “G” in Spanish class my first day of high school. I thought she was cute, so I made sure to sit next to her. Curvy of German/Irish descent, very gregarious, I had an instant crush. I was too shy to make a move at the time, and we didn’t hook up until the summer between 9th and 10th grades, but a serious relationship never worked out. I’m pretty sure she was the first to let me touch her boobs, but more on that at the end of this post.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was the summer between high school and college, we tried “dating” again. There was definitely sexual chemistry between us.
My mom worked swing shift, so I had the house to myself in the evenings. I went and picked her up in the afternoon and headed back to my house to hang out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started making out on the couch and trying to turn each other on, but that was never too difficult…
After awhile, we were both completely naked and going at it on my bed, standard missionary which she liked most, nothing too kinky. But good fun sex all the same. Once we finished, we were laying next to each other on my bed chatting when I heard a car door outside. MOM WAS HOME EARLY! SHIT!
I ran to the bathroom and flushed the condom real quick and yelled at her to get dressed and hurry. I scrambled to put clothes on, gave her a quick kiss, and ran to meet my mom as she was coming in the house. She asked what my plans were for the night (shit, can she smell sex??) I told her I was going to pick “G” up and we were going get a bite to eat.
Mom said she was going to start some laundry, made a big deal of it actually (shit, shit, shit, she CAN smell it!)
Once she was out in the garage, I quickly herded “G” out to my car and made a hasty exit. We drove around for awhile laughing about the “close call” and wound up in a secluded area of a big park. We began to make out some more, and ended up mostly naked in my very small, cramped back seat where we had sex again (the first time I ever fucked in a car), I think we ended up fucking doggie style this time because my legs were too long for missionary.
Of course, not long after we finished and moved back to the front seat a cop rolled up on us as we were buttoning our clothes and ran us off (Nearly busted, AGAIN?!? Holy Hell). I took her home after that, I’d had enough excitement for one night.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I always did with her. I don’t know if she had an orgasm, but she always enjoyed herself when we had sex, probably watching me get off being with her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We always used condoms. STIs never came up, we were young and invincible.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Attraction, and we both really enjoy sex.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not that I recall.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We drifted apart again once school started up in the Fall.
I would love to have crazy sex with her again, but time and distance keep getting in the way. But it was always just sex anyway, the romance was never there no matter how hard I tried.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t talk to anyone about it. But my mom looked at me a little differently after that.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? OHHHH YEAH! We’ve even tried to hook up again recently for old time’s sake, but never had the right opportunity.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Never!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was seeing her standing naked in my room, cheeks flushed, unsure what to do. She was beautiful in that moment. I think back to that mental image often in my daydreams.
Worst was the interrupted after-glow (twice!) and trying to sneak her back out of my house.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? For some reason, she was the girl I always got “caught” with. Even our first hookup, we were busted by her grandma. If she hadn’t come home, I would have gotten to touch/kiss more than just her boobs! I had her pants undone and was about to put my hand in her panties when we had to scramble and got off the bed. I’m pretty sure grandma could tell I had a hard on when she walked in on us.

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